Harmony in Our Homes
HARMONY IN OUR HOMES
“Whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.” (Matthew 18:18)
Anyone who reads Hannah’s story in 1 Samuel can’t help but feel sorry for her. Hannah had no children and was the object of ridicule and scorn from her husband’s second wife, Peninnah. Hannah took the only route out of her suffering and the only way out of her bitter relationship with Peninnah—she prayed.
Hannah prayed before the Lord, and she “wept in anguish” (1 Samuel 1:10). This was obviously an intense time of prayer for Hannah. Notice how she prayed and what happened next: “Now Hannah spoke in her heart; only her lips moved, but her voice was not heard. Therefore Eli thought she was drunk” (1 Samuel 1:13). Hannah could have become offended and said, “Well, if Eli, the priest, doesn’t understand my heart, I’ll never come into the tabernacle of God again!” But if the devil could have made her offended over Eli’s words, Hannah never would have gotten what she desired most—a son. Hannah stayed in faith, she shared her burden with Eli, and God granted her prayer. You never read about a bad relationship between Hannah and Peninnah after the birth of Samuel. I believe their relationship was healed because Hannah sought the Lord instead of becoming bitter and hostile toward those around her. If you and I are going to see victories in our relationships, we are going to have to pray in earnest.
Often, binding and loosing must take place before unity develops. Jesus taught His disciples: “Whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven” (Matthew 18:18). If we are going to have harmonious relationships with our spouses, our fellow employees, and our relatives, we need to learn the value of binding and loosing, just like my mother did. After she was saved and Spirit-filled, she could hardly wait to tell her family about Jesus. One year, all summer, our out-of-state relatives came to visit, but the next summer, nobody came! All the relatives were turned off by her witnessing. My mother quickly learned about binding and loosing. She bound the devil from working in her family, and she loosed God to speak to each and every one of them about His Son, Jesus. The Lord heard those binding-and-loosing prayers, and almost every one of my mother’s siblings was saved—and their children soon followed. Praise the Lord! Binding-and-loosing prayers will pave the way for agreement and unity with your relatives.
Sometimes we may not know what God’s will is concerning a person or a situation. Those are the times when we need to pray in the Spirit and allow God to reveal His will to us. Romans 8:26 says: “We do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.” We may not know what to pray, but the Holy Spirit knows how to pray the kinds of prayers that untangle the toughest “knots” in our relationships.
Are there some twisted areas in your life that need this kind of prayers in the Spirit? A hurt relationship with a spouse, child, relative, or someone else? Spend some time praying in the Spirit for any seemingly “hard cases.” Allow God to work through those relationships and bring harmony and unity into your home.
This blog post is excerpted from Marilyn’s 101-day devotional, Beautiful Inheritance.